Simba: of course you can join. I'm so sorry for your pain and I'll keep you in my prayers. We've all had different experiences, but what we all have in common is the pain of loss. That's how we can support each other.

jo76: thanks, yeah, we're hanging in there.
But hey, there's nothing wrong with a nice quiet evening at home. We'll be celebrating a late Valentines day next month by putting the kids to bed early and renting a moving and ordering food.

Katiegirl: glad you had some fun--you really needed some.

Anthonysmom: sending cyberhug--sounds like you really need one