Mel: Ok, DH's ex has formally taken on psycho status!! How difficult it must be for you and DH trying to do the best thing by the kids and then getting such mixed confused messages from her. I think what you have decided to do is the best thing. Stick to the court orders and if she tries to negotiate again, tell her that it is non-negotiable. You must be angry about the school sores, they are contagious. Does she go to daycare? I wouldn't be surprised if the daycare teachers call her if they are obvious. I hope she gets better soon for her sake and yours.
Lynn: I hope your appointment went well today with the fertility specialist. I want nothing more for you than your body to behave itself and for you to get a BFP. I don't know if there is anything I can do but if you want to hang out on Thursday I have the day off work. I have an appointment in the morning but I am free after lunch. Big :hugs: to you and DH.
Mish: About your DH, I sort of experienced the same thing. DH felt like he was a turkey baster. I think we just expect that because they are men they will be up for BD'ing whenever. At one stage DH said, what if I demanded sex from you and you said no and I cried, how guilty would that make you feel. He was right, it was an unfair thing to do but I was just so desperate. I think we have to remember that although the might not show it as much, BDing is more than just getting their rocks off and especially when you are TTC. I found that if I didn't let DH know where I was in my cycle and just went with the flow it took the pressure off.
Bailey: I am so sorry that you got upset when you got home on Sunday. It is so emotionally exhausting but it is also such a blessing that we have wonderful caring friends to share the load. I hope you are feeling better today.
Flowerchild, Scarlet, Tess and everyone else, hope you are well, take care my sweeties.
Well me, just had my scan and bub is growing well with a strong heartbeat. The other thing that I am really happy about is that my BP is back down to 120/75. It was really high at the start of the pregnancy due to stress so I am happy with myself that I am naturally controlling it.
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