Hey Mel - I am sorry that you have had a bad morning and that DH lost it. I find that when my DH has his rare mini-breakdowns about it that it can be relieving to know that he feels like I do, but at the same time, it is so hard to see him upset because unlike us girls, it takes alot for them to show it. It can sometimes throw me. At least now he can get some of ot out and you guys can move forward, even if it is just one step. I hope the S&K meeting goes well for you both. I am glad to hear that he is going along too. There is only one husband at our one here and it is really great to see him there supporting his wife and to see his point of view. you will find that the first meeting is quite hard, as you tend to go through your story with new people and hear theirs also and it is very draining. But stick it out and you might feel a real sense of relief once it's over. Let us all know how you go.