But I would really like one.
He panicks in situations (unusual for an Ambos son) and I know he is going to panic when I go into labour and birth the baby.
I would like my chosen Doula there to support both me and my DP.
He isnt too keen on having someone else in the room when Im in the state I am.

I can understand his point of view, but I would feel more relaxed and happy if I had my Doula there. I asked him if he would be able to make rational decisions if I couldnt and he said he could. I also asked him how would he feel when the midwives try and push me into a c/section or something I didnt want to do, and he said he would stand up for me.

Am I being too unreasonable in wanting a Doula? He is adament he doesnt want one in there.