Tanya- Yes I did get the info. Thanks. I tried explaining to him that I am more likely to end up having a c/section if I dont have a doula.

Leasha- Thats what Im worried about that he wont be able to make the decsions for me, as I know he will be too worried about how Im coping.

Sunshine_sieben- I do understand that this is his baby too, and thats why I would like it to go as smoothly and calmly as possible, so that he is not stressed out, and I feel having a doula will also help him too.

We talked about the whole doula thing last night, and he said he was quite happy for my mum to be there to do all the running around part so he could concentrate on me. Then that means that his Dad will have to look after the boys, because my mum will be in with us. I also think that a doula will help keep me calm, because I am scared out of my undies about the whole labour and birth thing.