Kira, I just saw your post. *hug* I wish I had some words of wisdom but some men really take a lot of adjusting. Or should I say, they need a good kick in the freakin' pants. Hope you don't mind me saying so but your DH is being unreasonable. You are a strong woman, remember that, and he should be made aware of the gifts he has. The first year is a write off, really, even though it gets easier, parents just glue together to survive it. It really challenges any relationship's metal, so to make it through, he has got to stop worrying about his mates altogether and focus on what he has created with you, your life, your son, your relationship, you. Don't start thinking PND though, because it doesnt' have to go that way. Feeling low because of stress isn't depression, remember that. That is simply a normal reaction to stress. Depression is feeling seriously low and out of control for NO apparent reason. You have plenty of reason.

Blessings to you, and I hope you all find your way soon.