Shoe, what Grubi said, and get to a bfing expert, pronto! Formula is not a better option, and they should be ashamed of themselves for suggesting it. Are THEY the ones gonna be there if he gets ecsema in the middle of the night? Call the ABA, you really seem to want to feed him yourself so you CAN make that happen. Everyone has problems bfing, most of us very significant problems, each our own unique ones but they are all valid and challenging and can make us feel hopeless and like quitting. One word to back those feelings up from a friend, relative or even worse - a medico - and we DO quit. Yet women the world over have to feed and therefore manage to somehow. We can to. The ABA deal with low weight gain all the time, it is their main support problem, they'll be able to help you without threatening ABM on yer a$$.

Eek, gotta run, sorr, back soon