BG, that sounds like a lovely day. I always stay close to home on our anniversaries...I feel safer that way because I never really know how I'll feel until the day.

Last year I was very pregnant (L was born about 2 weeks after the anniversary) and I found this VERY hard, anxiously awaiting the arrival of one baby and mourning the loss of another. I just hung around home and cried a lot and then went out and brought the 'angel' pandora charm for my bracelet. I wore it on a necklace around my neck from that day until I brought L safely home. It was very important to me to wear it during my labour, it helped me to somehow feel like our baby was included in that special day and that she was watching over us. Now I wear it on my bracelet between my 'girl' charm for DD and my 'boy' charm for DS; one for each of my babies.

I'm sure however you spend it will be just perfect