BW - I went through the same thought after Caitlyn. The early miscarriage guy and my gynae (post the event when I asked him) said they would have commenced me on anticoagulants due to my blood clotting disorder. Your (and mine at the time - just a first consultation) FS said no, there was no need for the anticoagulant due to the type of clotting disorder (supposed to be less / not a problem). I believed the FS (I wasn't happy with the early miscarriage guy who did the tests purely to shut me up but oops!! A problem was found) and didn't look into aspirin / heparin / clexane etc for her pregnancy.

My regrets - not following my intuition and believing a professional who is extremely skilled in his area of expertise but who has no idea (just my opinion) about the other issues I had in my case. I was dismissed of my fears without discussion of the current research and literature.

The result - my baby died. Whether they are related, I will never know but I still have the belief that I didn't do all I could to protect Caitlyn. I should have fought and gone further. I should have got a third opinion.

My advice - seek the opinion of Dr S. He specialises in this area and your medical history is significant enough to warrant this opinion. You are entitled to a second opinion, regardless of what the other specialists think. You will not feel happy with the progress of you medical care until you have covered all bases.

You did not cause the death of your caterpillar. No matter how hard it is to believe, nothing you did or didn't do caused this. Big hugs