Sarah I was actually quite ok when told I had m/c (it was a relief after the uncertainty of the bleeding) and ok on the day of the procedure but fell in a heap for a few days afterwards and was incredibly depressed. Then I felt numb, then depressed, then numb again (all the while I was intellectually ok with the concept of a m/c because thankfully (to date, anyway) getting pg for me has been like falling off a log and I told myself that the blighted ovum was never really a baby anyway, as a coping mechanism I think. But I was still very up and down for weeks afterwards. hugs to you....