oh, Naomi, i am so sorry that you have to live through this anger and frustration in addition to your grief of Oceana's death. i don't even know what to say i am so angry at your gp. i think you are right, many doctors don't care as much about babies who are younger in gestational age. it is so frustrating. some doctors, however, do care, and will do everything they can to help you. i hope you can find one of those in the future. you did everything you could have for your daughter, i am so sure of that. hugs to you. xxoom