Naomi, just wanted to say that I know how you are feeling as I just lost my little boy @ 19 weeks only two weeks ago. People tend to think you dont feel it if you already have children, but you do. (I have two other boys 6 and 3)

I dont know what to say, just thought it might help you to know others are going thru this too. I am going to have some counselling, it won't change what happened but might help thru the greiving process. Have you thought of having counselling.

kind regards,
Nessie