Sarah - we use incremin, a liquid iron supplimetn for when WIlhelms doesnt eat...works great and I know atleast he's got osmething in him when he's down and out. I hate 'friends' of our kids that do that. Poor Xander..maybe next tiem he has a play date get the play dough out and supervise them playing so you can calmly interact when they have 'off' moments.

Christy - I so hear you babe.....I need a break really bad..Im so nervous and jumpy atm. We saw those camps down here but they cost almost $2000 which is something we jsut cant afford. We've never been on a family holiday so I have bitten the bullet and told jed next september we're going to QLD. We are having so many issues with accomidation! GOD!!! glad Ive started organising now. Cant FLy up cause Wilhelm would freak out about the pressure and the closeness to strangers in a plane...also atleast he'd be familiar in a strange place with our car. Need accomadation so I can cook his meals and have a room that is secure so he doesnt let him self out.....god!!!! Ive been headbutting walls. Jed's dad is looking into timeshare for us up there cause they have unit or little house type accomadation which is perfect for us. Ive gotten onto some of the netwrok down here to ask for some help towards funding for it. I never ask for help, not even respite and my case worker said I should for once...why not but it feels funny asking for a hand out...just not me normally.

AND we had a wet bed AGAIN last night!! nappy to night for someone he's going to go OFF!

enough of my mumblings...better feed the tribe