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thread: Babys Father threatening to take me to court over the birth...ADVICE?!?!

  1. #37
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    Oct 2010
    Brisbane
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    It's not just to do with breastfeeding.

    Under 12 months, I don't think any judge would order overnight stays away from the main caregiver.

  2. #38

    Jun 2010
    District Twelve
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    Unfortunately Emc2, they can and do

    If you google 'contact child under 12 months family court', transcripts of judgements will come up whereby Judges have ordered it.

    Eta: not saying it happens often mind you!
    Last edited by nothing2lose; September 18th, 2011 at 11:52 AM.

  3. #39
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    Sep 2011
    Brisbane
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    Hi - sorry in my other life this is my research area - the family law is being reassessed in this regard as there's a great deal of evidence that shared custody under a certain age and especially in a conflicted situation is detrimental to children. I'm happy to provide research links </nerd>.

  4. #40
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    May 2011
    Brisbane
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    HotI - Hi! Lol. I haven't brought anything up with hijm or contacted him first in a while, except to tell him that the hospital appt. went well.

    I had heard that under 12 months overnight and unsupervised visits are not usually granted. And I would hope this especially applies to someone who can't even take care of himself right now :-(

  5. #41
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    Oct 2010
    Brisbane
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    Unfortunately Emc2, they can and do

    If you google 'contact child under 12 months family court', transcripts of judgements will come up whereby Judges have ordered it.

    Eta: not saying it happens often mind you!
    Yes I doubt that happens very often.

    gee if it's not Doctor Google, it's Judge Google lol

  6. #42
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    May 2008
    ...where jumping on the bed is mandatory!
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    someone else said it...make a diary of EVERYTHING. ever text, call, threat. even if you do nothing with it, if you need it if he does take some sort of action.
    he wouldnt have a lag to stand on. hugs to you that you have to deal with him being such a tool!!

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