My body, my birth. My DH is entitled to his opinion, and if he read anything about the birth then there would be more weight given to that opinion. But we're not buying a house together, I'm giving birth. I'm going to have to live with the decisions made during labour/birth more than DH.

My DH broke a bone last year, and we discussed his treatment options but it was his decision, which I supported. I wouldn't dare tell him what to do.

And this thread was never about men, it's about birth support on general: doulas/mw/ob/partners.