Is your partner as well informed as you?

[onthefly]

I think this is a bit OT, but anyway...
On one level, I agree - it is my body - but at the same time, it's not only my birth; it's our baby's birth too and I do believe fathers should have some say in this.
At the end of the day, we both want the same thing, so (hopefully) talking openly about it can ensure we make a joint decision that we're both happy with. That's how it works for us, anyway.