well to answer th original post DH was not very well informed at all but i will say neither was i

but i did know a fair bit DH thought that an epidural was a good idea and after a massive fight we talked and he understood wat that meant for me and that probably wasnt a good idea

when i had the BH's he was acti g like an idiot yelling and just being plain silly but when it came to that actual birth he was awesome and calm as he never needed to say anything for me but i know that if he did he would have done a wonderful job hes now even open to having a homebirth next time we have a bubba