But somne men are not engaged in the process - they rock in otherways - just not in this way...

I though can see why you are defending Manhood - & I would hope that no one is generalising - just discussing their experiences with their particular Men...
You're dead right, there are so many blokes with the switch permanently off. No doubt about it. Blokes who only engage in "bloke stuff" are fools, the same as women who only engage in "women stuff" are the same.

To me, some of the comments in this thread are very generalised male knocking tripe, which is a common theme as soon as some women get together and start cackling on about men. Same as idiot blokes at the pub always slagging off "the missus". But on the other hand, maybe I'm just a bit hormonal today.