I can't offer any advice cause my first bub is still cooking, but I just wanted to say to hell with everyone else. Don't feel guilty if you decide a c section is what will be best for you. They are not the ones that need to go through the birth, you are so you need to do what id best for you and your baby. Maybe instead of telling people you're going to opt for a c section, just tell them you'll see what happens if they ask. Unless of course it's the doctor/midwife giving the look in which case they deserve a boot up the bum