Thanks Jennifer and MadB I think during most first birthing experience you are so vulnerable....you tend to do what they want you to do and not what feels right for you because you have placed complete trust in these people around you...well I know this was the case for me. And I guess for me it's fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me...IYKWIM. This time around I am detirmined to have a good experience what ever it may be. And perhaps debriefing my last labour (as many of you have suggested) before I go into this one would be a wise idea :thinking:

Thank you all so much