Lenny: Woah! I'm sorry you took such offense. To be honest I find your response completely and utterly insulting. You have totally twisted my message around to make it seem like a personal attack on all people (and you have seemingly made this about yourself in particular like I am mentioned YOU? ) who haven't coped with their birth, which it is not. I am just providing a different perspective on what we as mothers must sacrifice sometimes to have our babies mentally and physically. Birthing is both a mental and physical act and I would NEVER suggest that people couldn't have feelings one way or another and that their feelings weren't important. I struggle with how you managed to glean from my message above that I was implying that mothers who have feelings seem ungrateful of the chance to experience motherhood I don't know which is worse, you thinking I am attacking people or the fact that you are clearly judging me without knowing me or my situation.