Lenny.

Blondie, I'm really glad that you are looking positively at your decision. Everyone is different and what is pain to someone won't be to someone else. Every feeling is valid.

I had two elective c-sections on the advice of my OB and while I wish I'd had vbs from the pov that they are less risky going forward, it is honestly something I don't even think about or judge myself on. But maybe that's because I don't feel that I was pressured or forced into the decision, and while my c-sections may in retrospect have been unnecessary (who knows how it would have panned out), I still made the call at the advice of someone I trusted and respected, and who ultimately delivered me two healthy bubs.

So my scar to me is just a reminder of those lovely days when my kids were born. I'm very fortunate for this and I feel for anyone whose scar is a negative reminder.