Oh honey

Please take the time to grieve for the birth that you didn't get.. cry... vent on here... stamp your feet around the house - take a long shower, crawl into a ball on the floor and just bawl your eyes out. Thats what I did.

But this was nothing that you did. Seriously, after that much prelabour AND being over 40 weeks - its no wonder you were tired and were willing to give it a try. I mean, the people that told you to do it were professionals right? Its easy to put all your faith and trust into professionals when you are sick and tired of being pregnant!!!!! (And this is coming from someone who got to 42 weeks - and was over it by about week 38!!!)

Huge cos I know what its like to deal with the disappointment - and to feel that it was your fault. My mum had 3 kids naturally, and couldn't understand why I wanted a VBAC so much - so along with my feeling of 'she did it, why can't i get the chance' - is also my mum telling me that I don't NEED to do this because a c-section is a better way to go. Crazy mothers!! lol

IT WASN'T YOUR FAULT. Just remember that. And remember that we are all here for you. And we don't mind if you cry