That's really NOT what I was getting at. I am so not victorian era. Men and women both need sex, typically at different levels though. Women can get their fix from affection and typically have a lower libido then men. No lies there, no ancient misogynistic rhetoric.

And for the record, I didn't imply that women were asexual, just that we are more wired to affection and men more wired to sex.

It ticks me off when I can't simply acknowledge that without being dragged back to the Victorian era. It just is what it is.

I have no problem whatsoever putting out when DH feels like it and I don't. It's because I love doing things for DH that make him feel good, even if I aren't into it initially.
I wasn't attacking you, or anyone in particular. It just really, really ticks me off that some women think this way.

It may be your truth but it certainly isnt mine. Nor is it the truth of a lot of women I know.

I just dont think by making sweeping generalisations that perpetuate a stereotype, we are doing the sisterhood any favours at all.