Just wanted to add my thoughts and prayers for you. It broke my heart to read what you are all going through.

I can't PM you, but I just wanted to say if you ever need someone to babysit or a place to crash for a little while, please contact me! We are in Melb (I think you are too because you mentioned Doncaster) and would so love to help out. I KNOW how hard it is to find babysitters/ support, and we would be delighted . I know you don't know us or anything, but we're normal (well, as normal as anyone I guess!!!), and I really mean it! Hope I'm not over-stepping any bounds!