well said Kirsty - lee, sounds too me you are what meny on here wont admit to been a normal mother I too do all that you have said above, and all the mothers I meet IRL are they same... we can only do the best we know how to do...

BB is great for the support it give but has made me feel like I am not a good mother when reading some threads, yes I put my hand up and say the TV is on all day in my house, I smack, scream and shout, I spend too much time on here ,I FF , my Dd2 was in sposies from birth but I love my winkies and I am doing the best I know how...