Oh don't worry, I will do anything to have a relationship with my granddaughter. Have you heard the phrase "What you fear, you create"? She is so afraid that I will have a relationship with his ex, but she is forcing me to have one. It is so crazy. But imagine how open the ex will be if she realizes that the DIL is jealous. DIL is creating her own reality. I wil know that I have tried my best. At the end of the day, that's all I can do.