W1, we've been feeling a bit the same. Somewhat despondent after the two failed cycles and DW worrying it's an implantation issue. If it helps, one of the ladies who has just joined the thread I mentioned above told us tonight that she had success with her second FET, after failed stim and FET cycles.
It really is a roll of the dice as to whether a perfect embie will implant. Try not to get too ahead of the game and just go with the bad feelings you are having now. They do lift in time.
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Dear W1,
That really sucks, I'm so sorry it didn't happen this time. I think you have every right to feel angry, dissapointed, basically fed up with it all!Sometimes (okay, most of the time) my DH cops a visit from this hormonal, irriational woman that comes to stay with us a week before AF arrives. She is quite unbearable at times, especially when she is feeling down about TTC. However, he is very good and understands that sometimes I feel overhwhelmed with our hormones - besides we need to vent! Plus consider that your body has been through a lot emotionally and physically. It's not easy at all! I am sure your DH realises your just feeling plain p****ed off and a bit hopeless right now.
As Slyder said, it will its seems to be a game of odds, the more you try the better chance you have eventually of getting BFP. I don't know because I am still new at this... and you shouldn't be too hard on yourself - you are both trying your best and that is all you can do.
I hope you feel better soon, I will be sending you happy thoughts and wishes..
Rach xx
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