You know what I loved (sarcasm here ), not in an IVF cycle, but I got a comment one night at a BBQ when I was having a glass of wine "awww so you didn't get pregnant this cycle?" GRRRRRRR! Wanna rub some salt into the wounds?? And for that exact reason this person & 98% of other people were not told that we were doing IVF. I do understand that it's out of interest, but would you ask people "So how's your chemotherapy treatment going this week? How many times have you thrown up today?" Same thing IMO, medical treatment for a certain condition, but one for some reason warrants all these questions.....

You're so right in that the people that you're happy to talk about it with are the ones that don't ask. My work was very supportive & I found myself telling them all about different things so a lot of people there learnt about the whole IVF process as we went along. I found though that no-one asked specific questions, they waited for me to talk.


BTW, do you want it moved to the vent forum