I think I need to collect a list of snappy comebacks. But I'm not sure many of them would be appropriate for a christian work environment!

I'm sure that it does come out of a badly thought out intention to be supportive, but it's just so damned frustrating! I almost wish there was a leaflet I could hand to people on "Ways to be really supportive to your friends undergoing assisted conception". I guess it would primarily consist of shut the hell up and wait for them to volunteer the information to you.

Weird how the people you'd be happy to tell are the ones who don't ask.

BW