dearmum......i can relate to the older kids and them not doing anything.....my 17ds is exactly the same and would prefer to stay at home and be in front of his computer.....he moved out of home on the weekend back to the city so he can be a city boy again.....i'm a little sad, but at the same time my house is peaceful again......yes preg hormones can take over, but they will settle down soon.....cheers kiya