ladies......i'm asking for some advice......dh ex after some many years has all of a sudden decided she would start harassing us....dh & i have been together since our late teens, but we seperated for a short time during my preg with my eldest son and after he was born....during that time this girl, sucked him and lied to him about being on the pill etc.....they were together for only 5 weeks, but during that time she did so much damage, to much to go into detail with......she has now decided that dh has to make contact with this daughter......we spoke with CSA and they are now requesting a DNA because they have gone through her file and found some discrepancies......he only had a paternity and tht is no longer acceptable because even though it says 90+ % accuracy it is actually inaccurate.......she keeps emailing me to force dh to make contact with the daughter.....like he says he is paying, that is bad enough, but he doesn;t want to meet the girl.....the ex is now saying that she will go and wait outside my kids school so she can froce my kdis to meet this girl.....what should i do ???.....i'm in massiv tears at the moment.....kiya