hi ladies....i need some advice.....we just found out that DH is going to be a Grandpa from a child he had supposedly fathered when DH and I separated briefly after our first DS was born....he has never seen this girl ever, but does make CSA payments......she has not long turned 16......the mother goes out of her way to make my life a living hell, and even though she is married to someone else, is still trying to get my DH...DH has shaken it off, but me on the other hand it is turning me green, because of what this woman has put me through....any thoughts as i know the mother will be now not only be pushing the daughter on to DH like she has been since last year, but now push a grand baby onto him/us especially when we are trying to have another baby of our own.....kiya