Thanks Dearmum......i just wish it was all just a dream, as it just keeps getting worse and worse and now the daughter and mother have now gone to the point of publicly humiliating me for the whole world to see all because DH doesn't want anything to do with them.....one day i will wake up and it will all be over.....i'm not going to let it stop us from having our treatment, as i am better than that and have waited for so long to get to this point.....how is everyone else going ? time for me to get back to designing a new horse logo for my horses.....cheers kiya