Oh Wheatie, Your poor darling, I am so so sorry.

Your post echoes my own thoughts of two years ago when the exact same thing happened to us, so I really know your pain.

At the moment you will be feeling numbing shock. Believe it or not, the pain, with time, does get easier to bear, and you just have to get through the stages of grief. My heart goes out to you.

Most importantly, take care of yourself.

In terms of how to move on, all I can do is tell you what worked for me. I was a total wreck and after my D&C just thought I couldn't carry on. I slept for a few days and then my first reaction was to go for a swim. I then went swimming every night for months. It didn't take the pain away, but all that swimming everynight did make me feel like I could at least cope.

Take care.