I'd probably let them know too, chepie. Let them know what you're okay with and guide them. I had to do it with SIL, I was fine talking about her pg - to a degree.

Telly - thanks hun. My supposed two closest friends forgot my birthday. And I even have one of them on FB where she would have had the reminder! (the one I was talking about today doesn't have FB). Today just brought it to the forefront of my mind. How are you going?