Miscarriage/Loss General Discussion #1

[tellytubby]

Hi ladies I hope you're all doing well. I'm going crazy waiting for Christmas to come, I really Want to start ttc! Using this time to try and lose some weight, I want 10 kg gone before we fall pregnant.

I don't know why,, but I'm still having my down days about my last loss. It's been Almost 4 months.. I just really thought it was going to happen. Hope you are all doing well, and taking care of yourselves. Love to all x

[tellytubby]

Hi again girls

Why can't I just let things go? As time is going on, I'm finding myself more and more upset.
I just can't get over this. I wish it never happened. The whole thing.. If I was never pregnant, I wouldn't feel this heartbreak. I would be almost in the third trimester.

I just want my baby

Xx

[Maruschke]

I know those feelings all too well. Losing a child is incredibly upsetting and I think your feelings are understandable. I hope healing comes to you soon

[Miss.September]

Telly. It's so difficult. One minute you think you're totally okay. Then something triggers and you're off again. We do a music class with DD on a Saturday morning. One of the mum's is pg. She's due a week after I would have been. I'm blocking my thoughts whenever I see her, pushing happier thoughts in. It's bloody hard. I'm fine with pg women. Have no issue at all. This lady though, it's just too close. That's how big my tummy would have been now.

Christmas is going to be interesting. I was due Christmas Day. With my first m/c, I was already pg with DD when the due date came around and we purposely booked in our 20 wk scan on that day. So we managed it quite well. But the thought of Christmas looming, with no baby growing in my belly...well I guess it's not something I'm enjoying right now. Hoping like mad we get lucky this month.