Miscarriage/Loss General Discussion #1

[Maruschke]

I know those feelings all too well. Losing a child is incredibly upsetting and I think your feelings are understandable. I hope healing comes to you soon

[Miss.September]

Telly. It's so difficult. One minute you think you're totally okay. Then something triggers and you're off again. We do a music class with DD on a Saturday morning. One of the mum's is pg. She's due a week after I would have been. I'm blocking my thoughts whenever I see her, pushing happier thoughts in. It's bloody hard. I'm fine with pg women. Have no issue at all. This lady though, it's just too close. That's how big my tummy would have been now.

Christmas is going to be interesting. I was due Christmas Day. With my first m/c, I was already pg with DD when the due date came around and we purposely booked in our 20 wk scan on that day. So we managed it quite well. But the thought of Christmas looming, with no baby growing in my belly...well I guess it's not something I'm enjoying right now. Hoping like mad we get lucky this month.