thread: my baby isnt meant to be born let alone dead

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    Melinda Guest

    Bella,

    I'm really pleased that you have found BB - it's a caring and supportive network as I'm sure you are bound to find out for yourself. I hope that you find sharing your story here to be therapeutic, and rest assured that there will always be someone here to listen and reply to you.

    I wish I had some words to comfort you, but I know that there are no words that could ever do that. All I can offer you is a friendly ear. I haven't been through what you have been through, but I have had 3 miscarriages and that was devastating enough. I truly can't imagine the pain you must be feeling. Please don't bottle it up - use these forums to help you through and to get the rollercoaster of emotions out there.

    Which part of Tasmania are you in? I am in Hobart.

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    ellbo2 Guest

    Bella,

    I know how hard it is. Believe me, I have been there, the same as you. Only my hubby shows NO emoition hasnt talked about it, and has even refused to go to see a grief counsellor over it - not becuase I though he needed it - but for me. It is a hard line to draw - to show no emotion - like my hubby - or to be the one who grieves? I would suggest you seek professional counselling as I know it helped me.