I might be wrong but I assume that you're at an age where you will still have the option of changing your mind in 5 or 10 years time.
Bahahahaaha thanks I'm about to turn 33, so I don't have a LOT of time up my sleeve Plus, once all babies are out of nappies, I don't wanna be going back there again!

And I think some people are reading my original post wrong - my problem is I do want another baby, but I have all these things on the con list, and I'm wondering if they are good enough reasons to not go back for another one, or if they are just selfish ones and I should totally get over myself and just do it already.. LOL