my dp didnt want to find out i went tpo my ultrasound my self and just asked i was lucky he wasnt there and bub showed i ended up telling him as u can see her girly bits ont he scan pic

i sujest if u can and if its avalible go to a scan place that does private scans and get one done that way u can find out and bond with bub

with the labour issue i told dp if he starts dictating ill be asking him to leave till he comes back to his sences its us giving birth we need as much encouragment and love not a dictatorship

i hope all goes well for u darl