See Willow I don't think I could cope knowing I have embryos waiting. In fact I know I didn't cope which is why in order to move on, the one condition I set was that we used our last embryo. Only after that one was transferred, and didn't succeed, was I able to start finding closure.

If I were in your position, I would find it similarly difficult to let go. For me, being 38 now, I am coming to an age where even if we were to decide to go ahead, I'd be on an uphill battle even more difficult than the one we were on before, as my eggs would now be older as well. These issues are helping me find peace with the decision, whereas for you, I imagine it would be far more of a challenge.

hun.