Possums, I'm so very sorry.

I could have echoed so many of your words in July last year when we lost our first baby also at 8 weeks and 5 days...

It is heartbreaking. Don't force yourself to feel anything you're not ready for. When the shock and anger goes, the grief and tears will come.

All you can do for now is take it one day at a time and know that it will eventually get better. Take the time to grieve and recover before you even think about getting back into IVF.

Once again, I am so very, very sorry that you have had to endure the heartache of loss after the hell of IVF.

BW