Possum magic - my thoughts go out to you in this difficult time. I agree with the others this forum is a great place to express your fears and concerns we've all been there before so please if you need to post please do.

Kit - congrats on your exciting news its so great to get the all clear at that first big scan. My husband was so excited when we found out our first child was a little boy, i think his exact words to the tech was 'is that a willy?'