anneebee--Don't worry, I've had my obsessive months.... it's just gotten to where I know my body really well, and I can see the pattern on my chart doing the same thing it did for the last couple months, so it's not hard for me to determine that I don't need to waste the money on something that I already know is going to be a BFN! But I still obsess over each twinge.... and I did the whole "faulty test" theory on a previous cycle, as well! I'm surprised my poor bb's haven't fallen off yet due to getting poked and prodded a thousand times a day to see if they're getting sensitive! Last month I even overlayed my chart with other charts that had low post O temps in the hopes that maybe I could convince myself that mine would be like that, too! And I have to confess, so that you don't feel alone in this, there's not a month that goes that I don't hope I'm still pg even tho AF has already arrived! It's my temps that help me decide not to test--not any great determination or willpower!

Yes, there's a difference between a forum and a chat room. The forum is similar to an e-mail, so when you hit post, it comes thru fairly quickly, but sometimes it can take a few minutes to go thru (or maybe that just happens to me since I'm in California). But a chat room goes thru almost instantly, so it's much more of a conversation that you're having back and forth, instead of waiting for that e-mail type post to come thru. Plus there's all kinds of cool sounds you get to make when you're in the chat room! I didn't discover it for several months, but now it's become another addiction of mine!



Easha! Always good to hear from you--although it seems few and far between! Miss hearing from you! Good luck next week with O!



Emmykate & anneebee--I feel for you both.... unfortunately it's been almost 7 mo's since my m/c, but I can remember just wanting so badly to fall pg right away! I remember being so confused as to what my body was doing and where I was at in my cycle, and whether I was fertile or had O'ed or not. That's what finally convinced me to start temping, so that I wasn't always questioning what was going on. We like to use the term dedicated here as opposed to obsessed! Obsessed just sounds so negative, while dedicated at least makes you feel good! Anyhow, I just wanted to give you both a big and let you know that you're not alone in this type of thinking.... I still clearly know those feelings.... the painful yearning for your little angel.... the longing of just wanting to be pregnant again.... the feelings like you can't even possibly be happy again until you're pg again..... and time just seems to go extra slow, making it seem like it's taking forever! I you both find some peace and comfort among us here and are blessed with BFP's very quickly!