TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ February 08

[Canary]

Hi everyone,
Just a few quick messages, i dont think I can remember everything I wanted to say to you all.

TM. So sorry for the loss of your FIL. I'll be thinking of you tomorrow.

Hoping soon. Oh my Goodness, I love the way you just casually announced your BFP at the end of a calm and collected sentence. CONGRATS girl! I so knew you were going to have a BFP. That's, what, the 2nd BFP in 2 weeks on this forum???? I'd love to use loads of exciting emoticons, but the pop up blocker is stopping me.

AJC... Sory about AF and so, so sorry that the theives have taken your lovely plants. I know that I would be really cross if someone took something that I had planted with care and attention. I know what you mean about Karma, though, I like to imagine what nasty events will befall these villans.... (evil laugh, he, he)

pbStar- welcome to the forum and sorry for your loss. I hope that your journey here is a short one

Betty. I am really pleased that you have found a good doc to take care of you.

Hi to Barbara, Nickster, AngelB, Laura, Brecca, Starrysky and Magda and sorry anyone I missed.

I had a great valentines day. Ate lots of lovely (and expensive) seafood, drank way too much wine and then followed it all with a chocolate binge! It was a wonder that I had any energy left to BD after that feast, but DH and I struggled through!

I am having trouble with the old CM examination. To tell the truth, I have never really looked at it before. Right after AF, it was a bit watery (which is supposed to be fertile, isn't it? ) Then it seemed to go away completely, and more recently it has been 'normal', or, erm.. a bit like just white tacky stuff. Defo not EWCM. In fact, I dont think that I have ever noticed anything like egg white coming from down there. Maybe I'll have to look out for the watery stuff again. Has anyone got any advice on this please??

[pbstar]

hi canary

i was just reading about the CM here
Fertility Friend Handbook - Fertility Charting For Pregnancy Achievement

Mine is watery right before the EWCM so you might want to check out the watery stuff again, maybe you missed it or it looks similar to the watery stuff

there is a section on that page further down about what to do if you have no EWCM- may be you need to change the way you are checking for CM? do you take temps as well?

[hopingsoon]

Hi

Tempus I will be thinking of you and your family on saturday.

Thanks for all your kind words. Now I am just really nervous. I haven't told my husband incase something happens again. Last month with the miscarriage my temps didn't really increase much and this time they have gone really high and stayed high so I am hoping that is a good sign. I also had a lot of cramping last time too. This time I am having a bit of pain but I don't know how I would really explain it. It isn't cramping but it isn't normal either. Has anyone had anything like this.

I hope everyone gets bfp's soon.

[AJC]

Tempus: My thoughts are with you & your family today.

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Canary - I have no idea with the CM either. The only time I think I have had EWCM is usually after bd and is probably, well you know what. Sorry TMI. I started checking my cervix position this month but I don't think I'll do it again. Didn't really help and no matter how clean your hands are I don't think it's the best thing to do along the hygeine lines.

Hoping soon - my last pg I had a pulling stretching type feeling which sort of but not really (if that makes sense) felt like af feeling too. I asked doc about it and she said it is normal and usually goes away around 6 weeks. I also found a little paragraph in the 'what to expect' book which says the same thing - and that some people are more in tune with their bodies hence they feel any little twinge more.

I realised this morn that they had taken a 4th pot - this nice one I had at the front door full of water with frangipanis floating on top. I actually ended up calling police assistance line and reporting it - I know it's no big deal like having a car stolen or a break in but at least if anything else goes missing then I've reported it.

pbstar - welcome. Look forward to getting to know you but hope you're not here long