I'm a newbie in this thread, just thought I would pop in and say g'day and see what everyone is up to.

We suffered our 1st m/c 2 weeks ago, and are having a hard time However, as this bub was so wanted and so needed, we have decided that we would ttc straight away and see what happens. I personally think that having something positive to think about will also help me start healing.

So, a question: m/c 2.2008, d&c 3.2.08, no AF since. OB did say anything up to 4 weeks for AF to arrive, but the waiting is really taking it's toll. So, we bit the bullet on Wednesday 13.2 and did the BD. I guess we just wait now?

RIght now I feel ill about the fact that we did BD, because we are still grieving, but we were away for a few days, we'd had a couple of drinks and things were just DIFFERENT iykwim.