Oh Lynn honey, I am sorry if this is not my place to say but I feel like slapping your sister in the face.
I am disgusted and angry that you are having to go through anymore pain. It is her right to have a baby, don't get me wrong, but she has no right to disrespect you as her sister or as a person. It is not Ok just to blurt out that she is pregnant, your reaction is totally warranted and natural. I don't blame you for feeling sick to the stomach and betrayed. I don't know why she is conducting herself like this... There is no reason that is good enough. Surely she knew the effect that her pregnancy would have on you. I know that one day you will be able to be happy for her, but she has to realise that you are going through an intense grieving period and need to be taken extra special care of.
I don't know what to say to make it better, I don't know if there are any words that are good enough. All I know is that I am here for you.
I am home tomorrow, I am spending the day with my friend from Brisbane, but I am here to talk to you 24/7 if you want to talk. I also respect that you might want to be left alone so I am here for whatever you need. Also, If you want me to ring your sister and tell her off I'll do that too.
Just hang in there sweetie. Will your mum be with you tomorrow? I want to drop a little something off to you. My friend will be with me but she has offerred to wait it in the car if it would be more comfortable. If you just want to be left alone, I also totally understand.
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