Hi guys,

I dont think im going to be very popular here but seen as though you were asking for opinions I thought i'd give mine. We got married 6 weeks ago and made a very cut and dry rule that we were having no children at our wedding whatsoever - Breastfed or not, apart from my three neices who were flower girls and old enough to behave themselves.

Its not thats we dont like children (obviously if we are trying for a baby haha!) It was more that we have a lots of friends with children and that if you do it for one you have to do it for all of them. We only had one person kick up a stink about it and she made things rather difficult between my husband and I. My husbands cousin from over east was bringing her mother over to look after the baby while they attended the wedding (by their own choice not because we said they had to) so we could hardly say yes to the others.

Children were more than welcome at the ceremony but we said no children at the wedding. I practically got abused by one guest for not writing no children on the invite. It was addressed to her and her partner and it is considered rude to put no children on an invite. Not to mention that a few friends have had babies scream the whole way through the speeches, first dance, video etc.

I understand that its a very personal choice but our choice worked well for us.

Amy