KAM, I am so sorry.. I know nothing will take away your pain right now but I hope you please take comfort in the fact you are not alone.. Maybe getting in touch with SANDS (Stillbirth and neonatal Death Supp) Will help.. They have listeners that you can call anytime and they also have a library that you can borrow from as well as newsletters that you can place a memorial in if you wish.. There are so many ways to honour your babies.. I have been sent a bracelet from a memorial site called Nicola's tears and had my bubs names written in the sand and printed out on canvas.. For me its little things like this I do to keep their memory alive.. And you always have us here.. Just 1 day at a time..
KAM, I am deeply sorry for the sorrow that you and your husband are feeling.
I to understand what it's like to not only lose 1 child but 2, as I lost my baby twins in Aug 08, they were born stillborn at 19w 6d one of each a girl then boy.
I can only offer this advice to you, take it minute by minute, hour by hour & then day by day. You will feel extremley angry for a long period of time, vent it out, once you can do this you are releasing the massive build up of hate etc.
It has been 6mths since the passing of my angel's, and to honour them in my own way I am getting a tatoo near my ankle a footprint of each child , it mean's every step I take they take with me.
Please PM (private message) me you need to talk whatever you need, all us girls Bellybelly can understand what you are going through, you are not alone just remember that.
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